What do you think? This is the question broached in an article that appeared Time magazine online today. (I included the complete article in the post continuation below in case the link expires over time.) The article was written in response to a study and paper completed by the Evan B. Donaldson Institute.
The conclusions don't recommend that white families should be barred from adopting African American children, rather they are emphasizing the need for education and screening for both parents and children. Findings concluded that Asian adoptees and native American adoptees did not as much difficulty with identity or a feeling of fitting in as African American children.
I think that as parents we need to be as prepared as possible and we must strive to to the do our best to meet the needs of our children. These recommendations are in the interest of the mental and emotional well being of our children.
As it stands now agencies are not allowed to address issues of race specifically in training, instead preparation is generalized to cover all aspects of adoption. Which to me really can be a shame. It goes back to my opinion that we cannot be colorblind, it is unrealistic if not impossible. It is an act of denial. Instead we need to educate, celebrate, and embrace our differences so that those differences are in the open, o.k. and accepted, therefore turning it in to a non-issue. Ignoring race or minimize it has been proven to cause greater problems for the identity of trans-racially adopted children of African American descent.
The 1996 Multiethnic Placement Act—Interethnic Adoption Provision (MEPA—IEP) was created when some prospective white parents were prevented from adopting African American children who, then and since have been over-represented both before and after the act went in place.
While I have been waiting for my daughter I have been absorbed in learning and trying to absorb myself in all things Chinese so that I can bring my daughter's culture to here and to our family. I intend for it to be as much a part of our family as the other cultures of our family. We feel we have much to offer to her and I have to help her contribute all parts of her to our family as well. I could never deny this part of her or any child that I plan to make a part of our home. At this point I have no direct experience with this issue as I have not child, ethnically diverse or otherwise as a part of our family.
I'd love to hear comments from those of you who have. Once again I've written too much and probably haven't done a very cohesive job writing this. I want to bring this issue to the blogoshere, for contemplation and discusion.
Thanks.
Should Race Be a Factor in Adoptions?
Should adoption agencies discriminate by race, or even by a person's racial sensitivity? According to current U.S. law, no. Since 1996, it has been illegal to consider race when determining whether families are suitable to raise adopted children — the law was intended to increase adoptions of black children, who are disproportionately represented in the foster care system, by making it easier for whites to take them home. But a new study suggests that approach is short-sighted. "Color-blind" adoption, the report contends, allows some white parents — who may not be mentally ready or have the appropriate social tools to parent black children — to raise youngsters, who may, in turn, experience social and psychological problems later in life.
The Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute, a non-profit that studies and provides education on adoption, examined national statistics and studies on transracial adoptions — those in which adoptive parents and adopted children are of different races — in the U.S. over the past two decades. In its report, "Finding Families for African American Children," the institute argues that race should be a factor in adoption placement, and that agencies should be allowed to screen non-black families who want to adopt black children — for their ability to teach self-esteem and defense against racism, and for their level of interaction with other black people. The authors' recommendations reflect the findings that transracial adoptees report struggling to fit in with their peers, their communities and even with their own families. The study also says that minority children adopted by white parents are likely to express a desire to be white, and black transracial adoptees have higher rates of behavioral problems than Asian or Native American children adopted transracially; they also exhibit more problems than biracial or white adoptees, or the biological children of adoptive parents.
The problem may be traced, at least in part, to the 1996 Multiethnic Placement Act—Interethnic Adoption Provision (MEPA—IEP), which Congress passed in response to headlines about white parents who wanted to adopt black children but were thwarted by race-matching policies. The legislation, which prohibited any adoption agency receiving federal funds from factoring race into decisions on foster care and adoption, was meant to widen the pool of prospective permanent homes for black children. Instead, according to the Donaldson Institute and supporters of its study, the law had a chilling effect on agencies that might want to facilitate transracial adoptions, prohibiting them from preparing white parents for race-specific challenges they might face raising black children. That's because, under MEPA-IEP, agencies may not create race-based programs; any classes or tools must be given to all parents equally, regardless of ethnicity.
That lack of support for transracial adoptive parents doesn't help their children, the study suggests, calling on governmental social service agencies to work with minority- and faith-based organizations, and to provide adoptive families with follow-up support specifically tailored to their situation. "We don't know [exactly] what families will experience once they've adopted a child," says Toni Oliver, a representative for the National Association of Black Social Workers and founder of Roots, an adoption agency in Atlanta. "But there's no way at this point for the family to even come back to the agency and get support after the fact." Even the Jolie-Pitts of the world could use some help, says Oliver, describing one white couple who have adopted both internationally and transracially: "The dad said to me, 'We really thought we had this intercultural thing down. But we didn't understand what race meant until we adopted our black children. That's when we got the stares.'"
Overall, the new study found, regardless of the race of their adoptive parents, black adopted children were no different from other kids in levels of self-esteem. But, the authors write, "black children had a greater sense of racial pride when their parents acknowledged racial identity, moved to integrated neighborhoods, and provided African American role models. Black children whose white parents minimized the importance of racial identity were reluctant to identify themselves racially." But is it necessarily catastrophic to eschew a strong racial identity? Not everybody thinks so. "All adopted children face challenges with being adopted," says R. Richard Banks, a Stanford Law professor and author of The Color of Desire: Fulfilling Adoptive Parents' Racial Preferences through Discriminatory State Action. "To some people, saying we want children to develop a positive identity means a positive racial identity. But it could be a good thing not to have a strong racial identity. The difference is a reflection of our beliefs about what black people should be and what white people should be."
Banks likens the debate over transracial adoption to the question of whether same-sex couples can be suitable parents. "It is true that [the children of gay couples are] more likely to experiment sexually when they're older, and they're less likely to be he-men or girly girls. But you could argue that that's a good thing to not have such starkly defined gender differences. It's a question of what counts as a good sexual identity." Treating parents differently because they want to adopt across racial lines would suggest "there's something abnormal about transracial adoption," says Banks, adding, "mostly these issues reflect our own anxieties about seeing mixed-race families."
Indeed, such anxiety is reflected in the national statistics. Since MEPA-IEP was passed in the mid-1990s, the proportion of transracial adoptions has risen only modestly — from 17.2% in 1996 to 20.1% in 2003. Meanwhile, the government has not compelled agencies to recruit foster and adoptive parents who reflect the ethnic make-up of children in the system, even though the law says they must, so racial disparities have persisted within the family services system. Black children are adopted less frequently and more slowly than kids of any other race. Fifteen percent of U.S. children are black, but they account for nearly a third of children in foster care and a third of those awaiting adoption. White children are five times as likely as to be adopted than children from any minority group, and are adopted out of foster care an average of nine months sooner than black children.
Still, says Adam Pertman, executive director of the Donaldson Institute, we're doing a disservice to children if we try to ignore those racially based anxieties. "We just want to assess whether people are ready to parent a child who's going to face racism," he says. "Helping kids feel comfortable in their own skin leads to better outcomes." That can certainly be accomplished by finding the best parents for the children who need them regardless of race, but also by supporting adoptive families with consideration for their ethnic make-up. Says Pertman: "Nobody's saying black kids shouldn't have white parents, but does anybody really think we live in a fully color-blind society? It's a nice ideal but it's not reality."
Hi - I found your blog to be fascinating...I was once in your shoes - we tried for 3 years to adopt from China - but that was 1995-1998...diplomatic doors were being shut on a regular basis. After trying to adopt for 7 years all told, we gave up - we have 2 biological children - I just wanted more...greedy, I know. I often wondered why I had to grow through all those disappointments and didn't get a child...but now I know, my neighbor and good friend also tried to adopt from China, and I was her "guide" through the process...they were successful, their paperwork sailed through to the "matching room"....and their daughter is now 10 and wonderful in every way. They also recently adopted from Haiti, a 9 year old girl - and they have 2 older biological boys - they definitely have a garden variety family! Hang in there - there's a reason for everything and there's always reason to hope!! I'll be back - I want to read the happy ending! Nan
Posted by: Nan | June 11, 2008 at 05:39 PM